What Keeps You Up at Night? (Part 2)

Posted by Heidi Clute - October 1, 2014 | Filed under: Recent Articles, What Keeps You Up At Night

What Keeps You Up at Night, part 2Know that you are not alone if you toss and turn as you try to fall asleep. In 'Part 1', we focused on the financial concerns of a married couple with young children, but noted that the Gallup-Healthways Well-Being Index shows 61 percent of Americans worry about how to manage their economic life to reduce stress and increase security. That’s a lot of worrying going on!

Your worries tend to change over the years based on your stage of life, and yet one question I hear regularly revolves around the financial impact of a change in marital status. The average life expectancy in the U.S. today is around 78 years, according to the National Center for Health Statistics, so that means people are living longer, healthier lives and rediscovering love. A new relationship can lead to questions:

  • What if I get remarried?
  • What if I’m living with someone in a long-term relationship but we’re not married?
  • I’m in a lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) relationship, what’s different for us financially?

Here are some things to think about now.

Marriage

Marriage at any age has financial implications. But these implications become significantly more complicated when one or both of you are contemplating a second or third marriage with adult children, assets, a house, retirement plans and perhaps failing health.

Each of you need to understand the financial and legal implications that marriage can have on estate planning, Social Security benefits, retirement plans and liability for each other’s long-term care costs.

Estate Planning

In most states spouses are entitled to a share of your estate, even if the two of you decide not to include each other in your wills. To ensure your heirs receive their inheritance, you may want to consider a prenuptial agreement or trust to outline your wishes. If you’re in a long-term relationship, estate planning is critical for both of you to protect each other.

Social Security

Many divorced or widowed older adults receive Social Security from their former spouses, and remarriage can affect these benefits. If you are divorced after at least 10 years of marriage, you can collect benefits based on your former spouse's Social Security record if you are at least age 62 and if they are already receiving benefits or are entitled to. If you remarry, you generally cannot collect benefits on your former spouse's record unless your later marriage ends (whether by death, divorce, or annulment). However, if you are a widow, widower or divorced spouse who remarries after age 60, you are entitled to benefits based on your prior deceased spouse's Social Security earnings record.

Alimony

If you are receiving alimony from a divorced spouse, it will likely end once you remarry. Depending on the laws in your state and your divorce settlement, alimony may end even if you simply live with someone else.

Retirement Plans and Survivor Annuities

This is a complicated issue, but the basic principle is there are rules that give specific rights to a spouse of the owner of a qualified retirement plan such as a 401(k), unless that right has been waived. In the case of either a lifetime or death distribution, the plan participant's spouse must receive the participant's plan benefits. A plan must provide that unless there is an election by the participant and the consent of a participant's spouse, a lifetime payment must be made in the form of a joint and survivor annuity.

Widows and widowers of public employees, such as civil service employees and federal employees, often receive survivor annuities. Many of these annuities end if the surviving spouse remarries. Before getting married, check your annuity policy to see what the effect will be.

LGBT Relationships

After the Supreme Court decision on same-sex marriage, there are still questions about the changing laws and resulting financial and legal implications for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) couples. This is an evolving area where consulting your financial advisor and your attorney is advisable, especially for relationships involving assets in multiple states.

Financial Confidence comes from planning ahead

Knowing you have thought through the financial implications of your relationship, and taken the legal and financial steps that reflect your wishes—these are the basics that may increase your financial confidence. Putting a strategy in place now for whatever might keep you up at night is well worth the effort.

Of course every person's situation is different and your financial plans need to reflect your specific situation. To help you gain financial confidence, I’d suggest an annual review of the “What Keeps You Up at Night” checklist in our 'Basic Financial Toolkit' with your spouse or partner, and your financial advisor.

Heidi Clute, CFP® at Clute Wealth Management in South Burlington, VT and Plattsburgh, NY, an independent firm and registered investment advisor that provides strategic financial and investment planning for individuals and small businesses in the Champlain Valley region of New York and Vermont. Clute Wealth Management and LPL are separate entities.  Securities offered through LPL Financial. Member FINRA/SIPC. The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations.

RESOURCES/LINKS

Gallup-Healthways Well-Being Index
www.gallup.com/poll/172109/americans-financial-lowest-social-highest.asp

What Keeps You Up at Night checklist
http://www.clutewealthmanagement.com/resources/financial-toolkit/

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